5 Steps to join forces with your husband as you heal from your past sexual abuse

Do you wish you had the support of the man you married but shut down when you try to explain what is going on with you? What if you were equipped to know what to say and how to say it to turn your husband into your greatest ally?

Do you love your husband but struggle with feeling closed off and often triggered by his loving touch?  Does a part of you want to enjoy intimacy with him but another part of you also wants to just get out, like it’s just too much?  I've got good news for you, there's hope!  It is possible to give and receive love and support from the man that once made your heart go pitter patter.

So how can you feel safe to communicate the hard stuff to your husband and move toward greater intimacy?

That's what this 5-week program is all about. Implementing 5 steps to help you communicate more effectively and band together to be the team we believe God intended. 

You'll learn       
   -that you are not broken and can feel safe being close to your husband 
   -how strong you are and how much stronger you can be together 
   -to trust yourself and feel safe with your husband’s loving touch 
   -to feel confident in your decisions and strengthen your relationship with your husband
   -how to keep sharing with your husband, even when it’s hard

Too many couples have accepted that their marriage will always be a struggle or even just decided to call it quits.

We know you love your husband and want this piece to be fixed.  Isn't it time to bring him on board and allow yourself feel supported by him?

 Our 5 week program includes


  • Weekly group calls with Vicki
  • Short weekly videos from Tom directed toward your husband
  • Q&A opportunity to ask Vicki and Tom ANYTHING
  • Simple Tools to instantly use
  • A community of fellow survivors committed to a more satisfying relationship with their husband

Session 1 // What was lost
Understand that you are not broken and you can enjoy a fulfilling relationship with your husband. 

Session 2 // Belief or Truth?
Learn the what is causing you to say or not say certain things to your husband and preventing you from strengthening your relationship.

Session 3 // Meet your internal protectors
Connect with how strong you really are and be open when your husband tries to touch you in a loving way.

Session 4 // Replace the old
Learn to trust yourself and create the relationship you desire with your husband as your best friend.

Session 5 //  No more blame, reframe
Make confident decisions daily and feel safe so you can keep the communication strong and move toward the intimacy you both desire. 

Who's behind it



I'm Vicki Dau, a sexual abuse survivor who realized how beneficial it was to make my husband my ally. I even overcame the triggered feelings and now am enjoying a fulfilling relationship with my best friend and lover of 34 years! 

14 years into our marriage, my repressed sexual abuse memories came flooding back and my husband and I spent the next decade understanding the damage the sexual abuse did, and how to overcome the effects.  Even though we tried following the advice of "the marital experts" very little helped us as I continued to lash out at my husband and shut down more and more as I felt guilty being triggered by his loving touch. Day by day, month by month, year by year, we learned what kept us at odds and what brought down the walls between, what caused dissension and what united and bonded us. I finally understood that my husband was not the enemy, and I took action daily, working towards getting us on the same team.  
 
And now, as a Certified EFT Practitioner, Master Coach, and happily married woman, I share what you can do and even what NOT to do, the exact things that I did and still do so you don't have to spend as much time as I did figuring out what works, or worse...either be in a love-less, empty marriage or suffer the fate of being another statistic in the divorce column.  


What people are saying about working with Vicki 


 “I have known Vicki for many years. She is kind, considerate and extremely in tune. She is a woman of trust and empathy, who leads with a servants heart. Her deep desire to help all realize a plan of sheer goodness in life is the hallmark she lives by, truly."
 
 "Vicki’s sessions are unique, as they have been created not just from her own learning and knowledge, but also experience. The process of talking through occurrences: past and present, has proven to be more than eye-opening for me. And learning the practice of EFT has been powerful and transforming.
 By simply listening, Vicki has the extraordinary gift to target exactly what needs adjustment. Through our sessions, I have learned to examine my thought process and beliefs of what is true, and not. I am more aware of daily interaction, circumstances and goal achievement; And as a result, have the tools and resources to realize my greatest potential yet!”

 
“Vicki Dau has a huge compassionate heart, an open, welcoming presence, and she’s also grounded, stable, focused. She connected the dots to things I was gliding past. That was so helpful. It was only through her guidance that I could finally see into my blind spots and let them go. She would guide me back into my feelings, into my body when I’d start roaming around up in my head. And because of that, I unlocked the deepest vow I’d taken and absolutely never seen before… I had decided at a young age I was helpless; i.e. powerless, i.e. a victim. This was the lynchpin… the piece that released all these other false stories I’d built about who I was and who I could be. I was stunned to see that I’d buried that all my life.” 
 
“I told Vicki the work I did with her has and will continue to transform my life forever. That’s not an exaggeration in any way.” 

DISCLAIMER:  The contents of this training, such as text, graphics, images, and other material are intended for informational and educational purposes and not for the purpose of rendering medical advice. The contents of this training are not intended to substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, and/or treatment. Please consult your medical professional before making changes to your diet, exercise routine, medical regimen, lifestyle, and/or mental health care.

Disclosure: The depicted experiences are not typical. Your background, education, experience, work ethic may differ. These are used as an example and not a guarantee of success. Individuals do not track the typicality of its student's experiences. Your results may vary.

So glad you have joined us!
How to get the most out of the course!
Honoring your wounding
Understand that you are not broken and you can enjoy a fulfilling relationship with your husband.
Who or what is advising you?
Learn the what is causing you to say or not say certain things to your husband and preventing you from strengthening your relationship.
You are strong!
Connect with how strong you really are and be open when your husband tries to touch you in a loving way.
You are safe now
Learn to trust yourself and create the relationship you desire with your husband as your best friend.
Make confident decisions
Make confident decisions daily and feel safe so you can keep the communication strong and move toward the intimacy you both desire.
Post Course Survey
You make so much progress so quickly that it is important to take a moment to see how far you've come!!
How to use EFT or Tapping
The power to calm down and think clearly is literally at your fingertips with EFT Tapping.

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14 years in their marriage, Vicki's repressed sexual abuse memories came back and she and her husband Tom spent the next decade figuring out how to make their marriage work.  

Despite temptation that it would be easier to just give up, they learned the mindset, strategies and tactics to make their marriage EXTRAORDINARY!  

And now, after 34 years, their marriage is filled with joy and passion and you can benefit from all of their trial and error and make your marriage the BEST EVER!
Disclosure: The depicted experiences are not typical. Your background, education, experience, work ethic may differ. These are used as an example and not a guarantee of success. Individuals do not track the typicality of its student's experiences. Your results may vary.
Disclosure: The depicted experiences are not typical. Your background, education, experience, work ethic may differ. These are used as an example and not a guarantee of success. Individuals do not track the typicality of its student's experiences. Your results may vary.